Rustam Babadjanov

Coaching for Ambitious Leaders

You've built something real. Things are fine, mostly. But you keep bumping into the same walls, and you're tired of figuring it out alone.

No agenda Totally confidential Your answers, not mine

Rustam Babadjanov

I started coding at 16 as a freelance web developer in Uzbekistan. Since then I've been a software engineer, lead product manager, and engineering manager.

I co-founded YamFood in 2019. We bootstrapped it with $20K and pivoted from B2C to B2B logistics when the market made that obvious. Later, at Express24 (acquired by Yandex), I helped build a product that hit 100K monthly active users and $50M in annual revenue. I've optimized systems that couldn't break. I've led teams through the messiness of fast growth.

I know what it's like. The 3am decisions. The patterns you can see but can't stop. The loneliness of being responsible for everything while having nobody you can be fully honest with.

I've been coaching since 2024 and I'm finishing my ICF accreditation in 2026. My approach comes from two 10-day Vipassana courses, formal coaching training, and a lot of trial and error with what actually helps people change.

I'm also building Growy AI, a team alignment platform. I'm still in the startup world, not just coaching from the outside.

Format & Methodology

Format

  • 1:1 sessions, 60 minutes each
  • 3-6 months is typical
  • No curriculum. You bring what's on your mind. We work with that. The stuff that matters to you right now is where the work happens.

Methodology

I pull from a few different approaches:

ICF coaching fundamentals

Listening, asking questions, being direct. Creating space for you to think clearly and find your own answers instead of giving you mine.

Body awareness

Patterns don't just live in your head. Stress, avoidance, reactivity show up in your body before your mind catches up. Sometimes we need to go there.

Parts work (IFS)

You're not one thing. There's a part of you that wants to take the risk and a part that's terrified. A part that's ambitious and a part that says you don't deserve it. Instead of fighting these parts, we learn to understand them.

Vipassana

This shapes how I show up more than what I do. The ability to sit with discomfort without rushing to fix it.

In practice, we can move from a concrete decision to deeper pattern work in the same session, depending on what's useful.

Who this is for

People who are doing well but want to do better.

You've achieved things. You're not in crisis, not looking for therapy. But you know there's more, and you're tired of trying to get there alone.

You might be:

  • A founder dealing with the loneliness and the weight of decisions nobody else can make
  • A leader in transition, stepping into a bigger role or figuring out what's next
  • Someone struggling with people stuff: managing, conflict, communicating with stakeholders who don't think like you
  • Someone stuck in patterns you can see but can't seem to stop
  • Someone dealing with imposter syndrome, self-doubt, the voice that says you don't belong
  • Someone making hard calls with incomplete information, wanting a thinking partner who doesn't have a stake in your decision

Not a fit if:

  • You're in crisis and need clinical support. That's what therapy is for.
  • You want someone to tell you what to do. Get a mentor or advisor.
  • You want quick fixes. This takes time.

Before and after

Where you might be now

From the outside, things look fine. You've built something. You're capable. You're successful by most measures.

Inside, it's messier:

  • Decisions pile up because you can't think through them clearly, or you're scared of being wrong
  • The same patterns keep showing up in how you lead, how you react under stress, and you can see them but can't stop them
  • There's a gap between how you show up and who you want to be
  • You feel alone with the hard stuff. The fears, the doubts, the questions you can't ask anyone.
  • You're performing "strong" when inside you feel like a fraud
  • You sense there's more, but you don't know how to get there

What can change

  • Clarity. That decision you've been avoiding? You'll see it clearly, including your blind spots, and make a call you can stand behind.
  • Different patterns. The behaviors that keep costing you: relationships, opportunities, sleep. You'll understand why they're there and find another way.
  • Your own decisions. Not choices based on other people's advice that you second-guess. Decisions that feel like yours.
  • Steadiness. The ability to stay calm when things are hard. To sit with uncertainty without being consumed by it.
  • Not being alone. Someone who knows who you actually are, beyond the role, and holds that without judgment.
  • Growth. Becoming the leader you need to be for what's next, without losing yourself.

vs. Alternatives

vs. Mentor or Advisor

Mentors give you their answer based on their experience and their biases. Advisors often have a stake in what you decide. Advice is useful, but it's not thinking space. And you can't be fully honest with them about your fears. They're evaluating you.

Coaching helps you find your own answer through questions and reflection. An answer you can own because it came from you.

vs. Therapist

Therapy takes you from "not okay" to "okay." It addresses trauma, dysfunction, clinical stuff. If that's what you need, therapy is the right call.

This is "okay" to "better." You're already functioning. We're working on growth, not repair.

vs. Friends, Partner, or Co-founder

They're too close. They have stakes in your decisions. You can't say "I'm afraid I can't handle this" without consequences: scaring them, damaging the relationship, losing credibility.

I have no stake in your decisions. Nothing you say will be shared with anyone or used against you.

vs. Other Coaches

Many business coaches stay surface-level: tactics, tips, frameworks. Many "transformational" coaches are slow and abstract. Years of work before anything changes.

I try to do both. Depth when it's needed, with the pragmatism of someone who's actually built things. I've been in tech and startups, not just coaching.

Free First Session

1

A real session, not a sales call

60 minutes. Bring something real: a decision you're stuck on, a pattern you want to understand, a situation you're navigating. This isn't a pitch. It's actual coaching. You'll leave with clarity on whatever you bring, whether we continue or not.

2

If it's a fit

We figure out logistics and get started. Usually every two weeks, adjusted based on what's going on in your life.

3

The work

Each session, you bring what's on your mind. We go where it needs to go. Over time, things shift. Decisions get clearer. Old patterns loosen. You start showing up differently, not through willpower, but because something has actually changed.

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